1. 8 Things To Consider When A Teen Has Two Homes

    Perhaps your family faces a situation where the child or children of the family have two homes. The transition of moving from one home to the other can be difficult on the child and as they grow into their teen years, it can be both difficult and negatively advantageous at the same time. The best circumstance for all parties involved is to try to co-parent. As some of you read this, you may be fee…Read More

  2. If Your Teen is Suicidal

    I know, none of us want to talk about this let alone think that our tween or teen could get to this point. It’s a tough topic to address for so many, yet I believe one of the most critical. I propose that while your teenager may be okay, he or she knows of someone who is not. It is an epidemic; and somehow our kids are living in a culture that has desensitized itself to it. More and more kids ar…Read More

  3. 6 Basic Principles For Making Good Decisions

    Life is full of decisions and it can feel overwhelming at times based on the sheer volume of choices available and decisions to be made… According to a Cornell University study we make around 226 different decisions per day just about food alone! And the number of choices available to us for both major and minor decisions has never been greater. Whether we’re deciding how to be entertained or …Read More

  4. Is My Teen Even Listening to Me?!

    Is My Teen Even Listening to Me?! Have you ever felt like you’re talking into a wind tunnel or as though you’re talking to yourself when, in fact, you’re trying to have a conversation with your teenager? Do you ever feel like they’d rather be anywhere else than be standing in front of you or otherwise being in the same room? If so, you are not alone. And welcome to the season of raising ad…Read More

  5. Simply being content.

    Nurture awareness. Stay focused on what you already have. Maybe even recognize the things you used to long for that now are yours. When we waste our thought and energy on wanting, we lose space to be thankful. I find it easier to shift my focus to being grateful then trying to stop wanting what I don’t have. When I am able to shift my focus slowly there is not space for comparisons and I find I …Read More

  6. Secure your Oxygen Mask First

    For those that have traveled via air, you have experienced the instructions at the beginning of the flight. Make sure your seat belt is tightly fastened, and if in the event of loss of pressure in the cabin, make sure you put on your oxygen mask before helping others. In that split second, I wonder how many women might give in to the temptation to put on the mask of all her family members prior to…Read More

  7. Guidelines you can follow for a smoother holiday season

    How did your holidays go? Here are some tips on how to end the year in good spirits. Here are some key guidelines you can follow so things to go more smoothly and for you to feel more grounded during the holidays. Practice the following: 1. Choose your perspective In other words, how do you perceive your holidays going? Write it down. Now consider if this perspective frees you or if it strains you…Read More

  8. Practice Gratitude

    Gratitude is when we are able to stop looking for the things we don’t have and be grateful for the things we do have. When we express gratitude it can show so many benefits; strengthen relationship, improve health, reduce stress, and increase resiliency. A frequently used method to practice gratitude is to keep a gratitude journal. To start you can pick a time during the day to simply recognize …Read More

  9. Sometimes, along with grocery shopping and cooking comes boundary setting…gobble, gobble 🦃

    Although we may have made it through Thanksgiving with our loved ones (and maybe even loved it!), there is still time to consider one’s needs in navigating the holiday season with extended family. Here are 5 things to consider to help navigate time with extended family at the holidays: 1 Start with some value clarification: this means suspending the “shoulds” of how you spend time with famil…Read More

  10. MARRIED, BUT FEELING ALONE??

    MARRIED, BUT FEELING ALONE?? Sadly, this is a frequently used expression as we work with couples in counseling. Married, yes, but yet experiencing a disturbing sense of “isolation”. Isolation is the opposite of “Intimacy”, so instead of experiencing a deep connection with a spouse, too often couples have lost ground over time and end up feeling lonely, separated and solitary even while yet…Read More